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Selecting a living partner
establishing an open and active relationship with a living partner
most of us have or had a living partner. we all have got one for eternity from God and most of us have lost that one due to the temporary progression of ego. while many never may find the eternal living partner HERE on earth - we all CAN find a living partner suitable for all our present lessons on earth. recognition of the eternal one can only take place AFTER YOU have accomplished total oneness with God. But for the benefit of your spiritual progress it is vital for YOU to really learn and practice all spiritual lessons this life has to offer you - HERE and NOW. as we all have to learn to love - to GIVE love to all and to ACCEPT/ABSORB love offered by all.
Love is like a tree - a tree with deep and strong roots can grow big and strong and last long
You may have selected a living partner - but did you establish a relationship with God to let love flow to and through your partner ??
Love needs to flow to establish a relationship - love needs to be linked between you two and the source of all love. To link to God or his son Jesus is easy and fun - try it now and enjoy sweet love and brilliant healing light within when God fills and enlightens your heart and soul ! A relationship without flow of love is like a light bulb without flow of electricity - dark and empty of purpose. Hence to assure and keep on love flowing, you also need first of all to assure that you are open for God - for the source and origin of all love. By following the teachings of love - you may open more and more by removing obstacles that your past experiences and pain may have caused inside you.
what's the difference ? you may ask .
the difference is quite simple. let's have a look at an example:
in the first example YOU have made a choice without accepting the selection that choice had to offer TO YOU. neither was the restaurant able to convince or advice you or encourage you to change your conservative behavior.
in the second example YOU made a choice and YOU displayed readiness to accept the challenge for something exotic, something NEW, something DIFFERENT and you displayed courage to TELL your likes and dislikes to allow the waiter / waitress to make an OFFER to YOU and allow you to accept - or reject - of course you accepted because you dine out to enjoy and if you select an exotic place - then you want to enjoy something exotic - something new and different - may be each time something NEW ...
and the restaurant cared for you and accepted his love and good judgment to serve you according to the preferences and likes YOU told them at the very beginning. they accepted YOUR input and feedback to offer the very best they had to offer - to MAKE YOU happy - because they LOVE you to come back again and again. may be for eternity !
two different behaviors - two situations in life we encounter in our relationship as well - exactly the two extreme opposites as mentioned above.
the opposite would be:
each person needs freedom to be creative in profession AND IN LOVE LIFE as well. each being is made by God to the image of God and has infinite potential to love in infinite different ways - for eternity - children, friends, partners, neighbors, ALL.
God is Love - You are Love !
there is a true divine NEED to find someone who really ACCEPTS out love - fully and with JOY as joy in OUR life depends on OTHERS enjoying OUR services and products of love.
there is a need to make a decision FOR a particular partner and THEN also to have the courage to FULLY accept ALL his potential offerings - again and again. to help and easy HIS efforts to MAKE YOU happy - YOUR partner depends on your feedback, on your physical and most direct and true and sincere feedback and on YOU speaking out what and how YOU like and LOVE things to be done for you.
have the courage and faith in the healing power of creative divine love of your partner - let your partner give you ALL to make you fully happy and yourself give ALL to make your partner happy. BOTH as happy as possible - for ever and ever.
such is only possible if BOTH have established a FULL opening for each other. for the NEEDS of the partner. once such NEEDS and feedback is spoken out and shown in clear language - this opening will soon be refined more and more and as a result of increase of LOVE flowing from YOU INTO your partner and from your partner INTO you - you both start then soon to FEEL and KNOW the needs of your partner intuitively and instantly. but FIST you need to establish an active and flowing LINK or relationship WITH your present partner !!
if for any reason you feel that you fail to fully open for your present partner - mainly due to missing spiritual harmony or missing readiness to spiritually grow and progress and RETURN home to God - then it would be honest and time to part in friendship and select another partner - one that can accept ALL your love and one YOU can accept as the source of your eternal and earthly source of happiness and love. God gave one to you for eternity - and even here on earth God will give ONE partner to you who meets the spiritual needs of your karma if the path of karma is your choice.
however YOU can only have a partner similar in spiritual intensity and evolution to YOUR very own present spiritual readiness and progress during YOUR present incarnation. YOUR present ego or the remainder of ego decide how loving your partner can be. it is up to YOU to BE ore spiritual - to BE more loving - to BE more open for the love of your potential partner and to GIVE more love to a hungry partner if MORE love and more happiness is your goal in life. HERE and NOW on earth as well as beyond and for the remainder of eternity.
it is YOUR choice and once you have made a temporary choice FOR a particular partner HERE on earth - you have to PROOF AND CONFIRM your choice by establishing a fully open link to your partner - by being fully open to GIVE all and to ACCEPT ALL love needed to be happy and create happiness.
you have to correct your choice and select another one by giving freedom to your present partner. freedom to find the one willing to accept ALL he has to give and willing to GIVE all he NEEDS here and now to be as happy as possible on his way through all his spiritual lessons here on earth.
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Very simple and precise:
If you partner loves spicy food - then the partner loves spicy love - Hot Love ! HOT SEX !!!
If your partner loves mild food - then your partner loves mild love.
If your partner loves sweet food - then your partner loves sweet love - angel love.
If your partner loves sweet AND spicy - then your partner loves wild angel love - sweet and spicy depending on the hour or minute or second - Enjoy !
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With infinite love and bliss