|Marriage healing - how to heal a marriage - if both partner want to heal a marriage - then marriage healing is possible and easy - learn how to heal your marriage step by step|
Marriage healing - how to heal a marriage - if both partner want to heal a marriage - then marriage healing is possible and easy - learn how to heal your marriage step by step
Every marriage can be healed if healing of a broken marriage or endangered marriage is the true and sincere desire of BOTH partners and both are willing to invest all their efforts, love as well money into the healing of their present relationship
Step one of marriage healing
if every single answer is a spontaneous and clear YES from the bottom of your heart - THEN only proceed to step 2 below.
Step two of marriage healing
Forward these above questions to your partner and let your partner answer them as well. Note that the first and single most important is YOUR answer first - to ask your partner only makes sense if YOU can say YES to all above.
if your partner also says spontaneously YES to each and every question - then your relationship or marriage is easy to heal and should be healed.
if YOU answer any or several of the above questions with NO or *may be* or *later*
Be honest and true in your answers. What do you really want ?? do you really want to make YOUR present partner fully happy, then you need to be ready to PROVE your love day after day as of TODAY.
Step three of marriage healing
Keep in mind that every marriage can be healed all on your own without any outside help if BOTH have true love still blossoming in their hearts and if BOTH can instantly forgive in FULL and accept full responsibility for THEIR own share of marriage drifting apart. NO single marriage EVER drifts apart on the basis of one making mistakes only.
provided that from the very beginning BOTH made a full decision based on true love only - it requires mistakes on both sides for a marriage to break or drift apart. if however one of the two partners made a decision OTHER than true love - such as pity, revenge, career, money or other NON-love factors for starting YOUR present relationship - then the situation is far more complex and either requires more intense work, outside help or a full re-orientation in life with a new partner - hence a divorce first to be love for a reorientation and new true love relationship.
when both say YES to each other and thus to all above questions independently from each other and from the bottom of their heart and soul - then you have the choice of either
doing all reconciliation and marriage healing on your own together with each other
seek spiritual guidance and professional help from a professional
make your choice and invest all time, efforts, resources and love needed until you succeed. Love is the key to a true and full marriage healing !!!
For self healing of your marriage you find ALL you need in the hundreds of chapters of teachings of love, spiritual microletters and love tests and spiritual newsletters with many valuable love lessons and love how to's as well as in the categories "secrets of love" and "love" of my Blog as well as in the forums of the Cyberspace Ashram. Take your time to read all and take the advice and practical lessons serious - follow the advice accurately and with all love you can possibly have and you shall succeed and enjoy true love between both of you again.
Step four of marriage healing - invest in professional help
marriage healing may be far easier with outside help. it may require however expenses and travel as well as a few weeks of time just for the purpose of healing your existing relationship or marriage.
think of how many hundreds, thousands of more $ you spend for health care, think of how many thousands of ten thousands of $ you spend for hobbies, recreation, vocational training, professional education, school education in your life and the huge investment / expenses you are ready to make for household, household appliances, cars, TV, Video, car, ...
if your marriage is anything less worth that all that - then you may simply have been far too stingy to maintain a happy relationship and may have to lose what is most valuable before feeling and knowing the true value of true love in your life.
if you are ready to invest time, efforts, travel and all related expenses to do ALL that is possible ... then you easily find solutions, professional help, advice at a suitable place to spend a few weeks honeymoon together with repeated professional / spiritual help to bring you two together in love again and to fully refresh your marriage and deepen it more than ever before !!!
healing needs time - time costs money - a few weeks honeymoon - time just for you 2 day and night is the very least your relationship should be worth to both of you. hence a few weeks or months of intense working / saving to afford such honeymoon, the sale of an obsolete car, reduction of other recreational expenses or hobbies for the benefit of such a honeymoon may easily b e possible if you have but ONE priority in your life - your love for each other.
if career or any other factors and activities in life are too important for you to reduce them - then your relationship is built on wrong basics and with wrong values of life and scheduled to fail. If however love is all that matters most to both of you - then you will easily succeed in healing your marriage and enjoying true love and happiness together again soonest.
Benefits of professional advice in marriage healing
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